Here I am, lost in a new country . . .

Tuesday, March 07, 2006

This is my question of the day?


How can you tell if a girl likes you?
I am totally oblivious in those tings. Last night my friends were teasing my face of about this girl that supposable likes me, but did I have a clue? No! “She is just nice”, I said.
Yet when I am convinced that there is a girl that likes me all I get is, “You are a nice guy, but let’s just be friends.” I hate that, hate, hate, hate that!!!
Why does it need to be so difficult!
Anyhow, my conclusion of the day is this.
I should stop being friendly then they will not want to be my friends because so far what ever I am doing is not working. So, prepare to meet new grumpy and unfriendly Foreign_guy.

5 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

How can you tell if a girl likes you?
I think you know the answer..I am shure, it's in you.

Why does it need to be so difficult!
I have the same question, but I think - people don't want to be hurted. They want to be shure they have made a correct decission (any kind of decission). So they prefer to protect themselves by doing things calm - step by step.

I should stop being friendly then they will not want to be my friends..
You can try to do it but it will be even moore fun for people, who knows you. We can try to pretend we are someone else, but our nature is stronger - your friendliness will find the way out ANYWAY.

So, prepare to meet new grumpy and unfriendly Foreign_guy.
I would like to see it (hi, hi!)

8:05 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my sweetpea,
perhaps you take a different approach.....slightly more analytical.
Make three columns.
In the first, list all the young ladies in your acquaintance who appeal to you.
In the third column, in order of priority, list what is important to you, your interests, hobbies, goals etc. (yes, this will take some thinking and some time).
In the centre column, list the ladies who share the same priorities, interests, goals. This must be completed with greatest shared priorities etc. at the top, and then in descending order.
The difficult part now, is to ask one (or each one) out for coffee or tea:) and explore the possibility of taking the friendship to a deeper level.
Perhaps "x" is right under your nose.
love you

6:25 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

don't know why it's so difficult..
maybe it's just not the right time yet?!

6:44 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You can't do it! You are too wonderful!

All women are diffrent, so it's hard to tell. But please don't go for a young lady just because she seems interested in you, make sure you are compatable with her too.

Many women like to flert just for fun, but a good woman will only get serious with a guy who meets her emotionally and intellectually.

2:55 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a suggestion...
Have you considered praying for your future wife and that God would bring you two together in His perfect way and timing?

8:18 PM

 

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